Things You Should Never Say to a Client

In the home improvement, remodeling, and construction industries, effective customer communication is one of the best tools for ensuring smooth project execution and building lasting client relationships. Every conversation with a client—from the initial consultation to final update—is an opportunity to build trust, align expectations, and provide clarity that can help to avoid a future customer issue. However, even well-meaning statements can sometimes be misinterpreted, leading to potential misunderstandings, especially regarding budgeting, project scope, and timelines. Knowing what to say (and what not to say) can make all the difference in client satisfaction and successful project outcomes.

In this guide, we’ll look at common phrases to avoid when speaking to clients in the home remodeling industry, along with tips for communicating effectively. Use these best practices to guide any customer interaction on your way to building a customer base that feels informed, confident, and positive about their investment in the project—and in your services.

Why Communication Matters in Home Remodeling

Starting with open, upfront conversations with a potential customer during the initial consultation is vital for creating realistic expectations. When you take the time to explain pricing, project scope, and potential changes, clients feel reassured and well-prepared for what’s to come. Additionally, clearly communicating what’s included (and what isn’t) in the price helps set customer expectations, understand their investment and minimizes confusion about additional costs.

Transparency, particularly when it comes to costs and scope, demonstrates your commitment to integrity and professionalism. It builds trust and gives clients the freedom to make informed decisions, knowing exactly what they’re paying for and why.

Phrases to Avoid with Clients — And What to Say Instead

Here are some common phrases to avoid with clients, along with helpful tips for effective communication and client relationship management:

1. “I'm not sure what this will cost until we start.”

  • Why to Avoid It: This statement can cause clients to feel uncertain and anxious about budgeting and the entire project. It’s vague and implies a lack of preparation or that you don’t have a plan for the project. If clients are not informed about cost drivers, they might feel blindsided or misled when they see higher-than-expected costs, leading to frustration and disappointment.

  • Better Approach: Create certainty in scope and price by asking questions. Lots of questions. Use that to provide a detailed estimate based on the scope of work and clearly outline potential variables. Educating clients about the factors influencing pricing helps manage their expectations and builds trust. Clients feel more informed and empowered, reducing feelings of vulnerability or being overwhelmed by the complexity of the project. If there are still uncertainties, explain them and offer a range or contingency plan.

2. “If you want it done right, it's going to cost more.”

  • Why to Avoid It: This phrase may sound like you’re pressuring a potential client into accepting higher costs without clear reasoning. It can also imply that you’d offer a lower-quality option, which can damage credibility.

  • Better Approach: Explain why quality is key. Focus on providing value-based explanations of choices and quality levels and their impact on price now. Discuss the potential long-term savings of higher-quality products that can enhance the durability and appearance of the remodel. Provide examples of workmanship from past projects or customer testimonials and their impact on the look and customer experience. Or use your experience to recommend where it might be worthwhile to spend more, or less, on a product.

3. “I don’t have time to go over the details.”

  • Why to Avoid It: This can make clients feel undervalued and unimportant, and its' negative connotation suggests that their needs or concerns are not worth addressing. Without a clear proposal, clients might experience stress and second-guessing as they try to figure out where their money is going, leading to a rollercoaster of emotions as they wait for clarification.

  • Better Approach: Dedicate time to explain the details of the pricing, answer questions, and ensure clients feel fully informed and involved in the process. A detailed proposal helps alleviate anxiety and confusion. Clients feel more secure and confident when they understand exactly what they are paying for, reducing feelings of uncertainty or frustration.

4. "That’s the best we can do."

  • Why to Avoid It: Without context, this response can come off as inflexible and dismissive and may suggest that a detailed or justified explanation of costs is not being provided. This can make clients feel uneasy and mistrustful about the project's financial management or their ability to control their own budget, potentially leading to conflict or dissatisfaction.

  • Better Approach: Show willingness to discuss and negotiate within reasonable limits. Explain the specific factors, such as material costs, labor rates, or changes in project scope. Explain how choices in product influence costs, providing comparisons between different materials, finishes, or design to help clients make informed decisions. For example, you might compare the costs of different countertop materials, such as granite versus laminate, and discuss how these options impact both the cost and the look of the final result. Discuss alternatives or adjustments to the scope of the project that meet the client's budget while still aiming to achieve their goals These comparisons and alternative solutions allow clients to weigh their options and make decisions that align with their budget and preferences. This demonstrates your commitment to finding the best possible outcome for your clients to stay within their financial limits and ensure they are satisfied with the final result.

5. “You get what you pay for.”

  • Why to Avoid It: This phrase can sound like setting expectations for high costs without proper explanation. It may alienate clients who are looking for detailed reasons behind the pricing. Without clear explanations, clients may experience a rollercoaster of emotions, from initial excitement to the stress and frustration of an upset customer as costs or unexpected issues arise.

  • Better Approach: Provide a clear explanation of the value and quality included in the price. Show how the investment translates into benefits and quality of work. Set realistic expectations from the start by providing a range of potential costs and preparing clients for contingencies to manage their expectations and reduce the shock of unexpected expenses. This allows them to feel more prepared and less anxious about potential changes in pricing.

Communication Tips for a Better Client Experience

  • Transparency Is Key: Ensure clients understand what’s included in the pricing and communicate any potential changes or additional costs.

  • Listen First, Speak Second: Take the time to listen actively, which shows clients that you respect their opinions and understand their needs.

  • Regular Updates Are Essential: Regular progress updates or project delays, especially if timelines shift, can help clients feel informed and involved in the process. Clear communication throughout the project also minimizes surprises.

  • Set Realistic Expectations: Always be upfront about possible changes to the timeline or budget, and never overpromise. Clients appreciate honesty and are more likely to have a positive experience if they know you’re committed to meeting realistic goals.

Make Communication Your Key Tool in Remodeling Projects

For clients, a remodeling project is a large investment, both financially and emotionally. By using positive language and taking a proactive, honest approach to communication, you can ensure that clients feel confident in the process. Each conversation is an opportunity to reinforce trust, alleviate concerns, and make sure clients feel that they’re part of the journey from start to finish. When you avoid common pitfalls and embrace open, respectful dialogue, clients are more likely to walk away satisfied, recommend your work to others, and return for future projects.

Remember, it’s not just what you say, but how you say it. Being respectful, transparent, and thorough in your communication not only creates customer satisfaction, it also strengthens your reputation and fosters meaningful, long-term client relationships. By building this foundation of trust, you not only improve client satisfaction but also set yourself apart as a remodeling professional who genuinely cares about each client’s experience.

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